My Bond with My Family

My Bond with My Family

On last January 27, 2019, was the ACT-IS Regular Program Family Day, with its theme being "Family, United in Love". All of the students from each the Preschool Department to the Junior High School Department, celebrated this program with their families together as one, and always united with love and care, as mentioned in the said theme of Family Day.

On the time we got there, I was a bit excited during the registration since I know, I will get to be with my mother and father, along with my old brother, sister and niece from Grade 1, but was a little nervous for my classmates to be seeing with my parents for once in a lifetime since they never got to see them a lot of times.

During that time after we arrived at the program, it was time for the Mass and listened well, while taking a few glances at my parents to see how they were doing during the Mass was in session, along with my classmates, the other students and parents within the area. Afterwards, it was time for the actual program with the presentations from the different levels. My parents and brother, however, had to go home after the Mass was finished to rest but said that they'll return for eating dinner. The presentations from the different levels were amazing and I was staying really confident but a little nervous when it was our turn to present in front of the other students and parents from the different levels, but my confidence didn't fade away until the end of our performance.

I was happy for our performance went, except for some of my classmates that felt uncomfortable during the performance, but I still think we did a pretty good job during the presentation. After the presentations from the different levels, the people from the VDAC, Venanzuela Dance Art Center performed an outstanding performance that left everyone on the sides awestruck, and so did I, obviously.

Afterwards, it was time for the raffle drawing. Surprisingly enough, I heard my name during the raffle draw and left a bit surprised and shocked, at the same time. My adviser, Ms. Ara, said that it was my lucky day during that time since I got called first for the raffle draw, out of the entire class.

After the raffle draws for a few prices, it was the "Hot Momma & Hot Pappa" competition for the Grade School Department and noticed my sister, representing for the Grade 1 Level and was cheering her on so much, my voice cracked a lot and almost lost it. With that being said, it was time for more raffle drawing after that and then, it was time for dinner.

My parents, however, didn't came back for dinner since my mother felt tired and they were only there to attend the Mass before the program even began. But luckily, my sister and niece were still there, which was no problem for me during that time because I didn't felt alone, aside from my friends, keeping me company.

After eating dinner and having tons of conversations with my classmates and their parents, it was time for more raffle draws and after that, was the "I Got it from my Momma, I Got it from my Pappa" Talent Show and Competition. I was slightly amazed by some of the performances from the other levels, but kept on cheering for the performance of Grade 8 a.k.a, my class.

Afterwards, there were a few more raffle draws. So, did I had fun during the program of Family Day, Family United in Love? In my opinion, I had a great time, even though my parents didn't came back for the rest of the program and for dinner, but I still had a great time with my friends and other classmates of mine for the rest of the program since, like my own family, they're also my second family.

Feeling the Void of Darkness

FEELING THE VOID OF DARKNESS

Darkness fills the room. What am I feeling? Fear, like a dark void.

"Everything's gonna be okay." But no miracle will show.

If fear is inside, how would I feel my own happiness?

Reflective Writing on The Story of Ruth

THE STORY OF RUTH

Introduction

The story of Ruth is a story that comes from the Hebrew Bible and is included in the third division or the Writings of the Bible. The story follows about a Moabitess woman named Ruth, who was married to Mahlon, who is one of the two sons of Naomi, their mother, and their deceased father or Naomi's husband, Elimelech. After both sons and Elimelech died, Naomi and her two daughters-in-law decided to go back to Bethlehem, but Naomi asked Orpah to go back to her home yet Ruth wanted to stay with her, after her husband just passed away. Ruth then met a man named Boaz, who was her husband's closest male relative, and Naomi suggests that she should marry him because it was Jewish Custom to have the widow to marry their closest male relative. After reading the story, there were a few questions that were circulating in my head. Those questions are different, but one question has really got me wondering if it still happens today: "Is the Jewish Custom to marry a childless widow to the closest male relative?" Everything in my head is circling around that question.

In this blog of mine, I will be talking about my opinion about the custom that happened in the story and how the story is being related in what today's world is now.

BODY

The Judge Shamgar slaughters 600
men with an ox goad.
From a medieval German manuscript

In the story, it mentions that Israel is being ruled by judges before. According to Wikipedia.com, there were judges called the Biblical Judges, which were described in the Hebrew Bible, and mostly in the Book of Judges. They're people who served roles as military leaders in times of crisis, in the period before an Israelite monarchy was established. A cyclical pattern is regularly recounted in the Book of Judges to show the need for the various judges: apostasy of the, hardship brought on as punishment from God, crying out the Lord for rescue.

About the thing that Ruth said to her mother-in-law - "Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God. Where you die I will die, and there I will be buried. May the Lord deal with me, be it ever so severely, if even death separates you and me" - actually came from the actual bible and is known as Ruth 1:16-17.

Judah and Tamar, by Rembrandt (1650s).
An early example of aYibbum-like practice
is the biblical story of Judah and Tamar.

The part when Naomi told her daughter-in-law about Boaz being their closest male relative in the family, he should marry her since it was a Jewish custom for a widow to marry her husband’s closest male relative after he passed away. Now, this was a true custom in Judaism and it is called Yibbum or Levirate Marriage. It is also said to be one of the most complex types of marriages mandated by Torah law by which, according to the law, the brother of a man who died without children has an obligation to marry the widow. However, if either of the parties refuses to go through with the marriage, both are required to go through a ceremony known as halizah, involving a symbolic act of renunciation of their right to perform this marriage. Jewish law has seen a gradual decline of yibbum in favor of halizah, to the point where in most contemporary Jewish communities, and in Israel by mandate of the Chief Rabbinate, the former is prohibited.

Though, the concept of yibbum is not unique to Judaism. Known as levirate marriage (when the marriage is to the deceased’s brother) or widow inheritance (when it is to any surviving male relative), has been practiced by other societies with a strong clan structure. It is or was known in societies including Punjabis, Jats, Huns, Mongols, and Tibetans. In my honest opinion, I don't agree with this kind of custom to people, because if you marry the closest male relative, you won't get to marry the person you really have the most time. You enjoy the company of that person your whole entire life, and if you were to marry your family's closest male relative, then that relationship with that special someone your whole entire life will change. In short, I disagree with this being a custom to some people, but there are people that still do this custom.

But is levirate marriage still practicing today? Well, it is still being practiced today in Orthodoxy, but the policy is not to have the couple marry. The custom came from the Bronze age custom of supporting a childless widow who had no claim on her husband’s estate, and no means of supporting herself. A woman who might be infertile (they had no idea in that time whose ‘fault’ it was that no kids happened) was unlikely to marry again. Therefore, kindness allowed the woman a second shot at a married life. Today, childless widows have claim on their husband’s estate and can support themselves. So the custom is no longer carried out, outside a ceremony of release.

CONCLUSION

After what happened in the story, I have to come a realization that the childless widows who follow along with levirate marriage don't have a choice. The childless widows need to find someone else, instead of their closest male relative, so they can express their love and support for each other and for the family as well. And the fact that Ruth didn't want to go back to her home and decided to stay with her mother-in-law is because she cares deeply for her and wanted to be with her forever until they die, as stated in what she said to her and what is says in the bible. Love always require a second chance and I know it for some other people, especially if your loved one passed away into the afterlife, but just know that they'll always be there.

REFERENCES

-https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Book_of_Ruth

-https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yibbum

-https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Biblical_judges

-https://www.quora.com/Is-the-levirate-marriage-system-still-practiced-in-Judaism-Ive-seen-an-interesting-film-about-this-called-Loving-Leah

Autobiographical Incident

Internet Changes Everyone's Lives

An Autobiographical Incident

By Hanna Joan H. Alusin

"The internet changed my attitude."

Ever since the year 2013. I had no idea what to do with my life. I don't know what to become and how much I want to entertain myself with. That was the time I didn't know too much about technology, aside from owning a computer yet not using it.

"Hanna, wanna play a game on my phone?" My Ate said.

She eventually showed me a game on her phone and I didn't know what to expect, so I decided to start playing the game. A few days later, I was becoming addicted to the game and that is where I was introduced into the world of the Internet. There, I started watching videos from content creators on YouTube and watching anime, as well. But as the years go by, I started to change my attitude towards other people. I became anti-social. Some people were asking me;

"What happened to you?"

And I said, "The internet changed me."

These days, people are being more into the internet and that, every person has became anti-social and not connecting more with one another in real life. That has become who I am, because of the internet, and everything is never as it seems.

An Open Letter to Parents

Open Letter to Parents

Whatever you must do, you must do the things like working and caring for the needs of your child. Things like money are important, so that your child can have their education in a school and needing the valuable things for them to continue on with their studies. Even if the kids today are focusing on the new technology and the internet, you, the parents, tell them to lessen their time on technology, and prioritizing their studies and education. Sure, there are ups and downs, arguments here and there, but know this, you are raising and helping your child to make them who they want to be.

But what will you be doing? Of course, you have to support your child, in any manner of guidance, chase down the dreams and wishes that they are trying to seek for the future. There would be problems about one another, but they'll always know that they have learned more than three things from you. Anything they do, they will certainly make a path towards it.

From: Sons and Daughters

Vocational Fair 2017: Fashion Night

Vocational Fair 2017 Fashion Night

On November 24, 2017 at 6:00, was the Vocational Fair and Fashion Night at Asian College of Technology. When I first arrived, they were all setting up everything, but I have seen a couple of the students who are going to be modelling for the fashion night, and at first, I knew that all of the models would be wearing amazing and creative costumes and outfits, and that they were modelling perfectly on stage. The program was going on and the Grade 9 students were giving all of their looks and dance moves to the audience by giving them a little dance performance for them. Then, the principal herself gave a reminded to the audience about the new educational system, and that is why more programs are now happening at the school. After that, the students were now giving their best looks on the runway!

First up, the models were showing off in their nightwear outfits, or pajamas. Some of them I have already seen and worn, but the students wearing them are so good in them. Next up was the Summer Outfits, and wow, they are so ready for the summer time. All of their outfits were stunning and, at the same time, cute and cool-looking. The models really suit the summer collection outfits, and I gave it a 10/10. The male models were okay, but the female models were fabulous!!

Next up, there was... I think the formal collection. All of the student models were looking their best in their amazing formal outfits, and amazingly stunning too. The different outfits of the different models match their style and it was just perfect to be shown on the runway. Some of the outfits were for parties or hanging out with friends, but they are always so amazing and cool at the same time.

All of the male models were doing their greatest to give the audience some amazing and fashionable outfits. Then after that, a couple more performances were being performed before the next set of models would be modelling down the runway. And with that, the models were now walking down the runway with their amazing catwalks and fashioning the Egyptian and God and Goddesses styled-costumes. The models were giving their explanation of who they were dressed as and talking about that characters, and maybe the audience can learn a thing or two from the models. After that, it was now the presentation of awards.

Field Demonstration Experience

Field Demo Experience

Last September 30 was the Field Demonstration for the Preschool, Grade School, and Junior High School students. It was the day for all of the students to perform various dance performances to the please the Principal of the school, and everyone there was happy and excited to see their young students performing on the quadrangle at school. The theme was all about history, like the Independence Day, the Spanish Colonization, Japanese Colonization and many more performances.

The program started with the Preschool Department students, and their performance was so cute and adorable, the audience of parents loved the cutey's performance. Then comes up is the Grade one students, then Grade two, and so on and so forth until they reached the ending performance with the Grade 10/4th Year students of the Junior High School Department. It was so cool and amazing and really historical, because it relates to everything that have happened, but with the dancing and hip hop twist to everything.

After that, we performed the Fly High Jingle Dance and everyone were all there to perform the ACT Jingle, and everyone had a great time and I had a great time.

Now for my experience during the Field Demonstration, it was pretty fun and cool at the same time because we get recreate some of the scenes from the past times and give it a little touch of dancing into the performances of all the students and I had lots of fun all the time. With everyone there performing, it was a great time for all of us to do and we have gave it all we got to perform for Asian College of Technology's 29th Founding Anniversary, and here's to the next year's Field Demonstration!